Sometimes I worry, we English don't really like children... or at least we English gardeners. I have seen "kids" mentioned in lists of "common garden pests", most places I visit spend half their budget on "Keep off the Grass" signs and public gardens appear to think a children's play area, usually secreted somewhere between the car park and toilets, is enough to placate the family audience.
To be fair, there are some notable exceptions. Easton Walled Gardens, for example, goes out of its way to encourage the rampaging of children across the grounds and some places, such as Hampton Court in Herefordshire or the Lost Gardens of Heligan, could almost have been created just to delight the smaller visitors.
I wondered if this was a worldwide phenomenon but at a Loire Valley gardens event a couple of weeks ago, I was struck by how often the owners referred to families and children in their talks and by the number of images of children I saw in their slides.
And then there was le Rivau...
This was not a garden I'd heard of before but it is only 20 minutes from the world-famous Villandry and, if you are every travelling there with kids in tow, it would be the perfect place to combine horticulture and junior entertainment.
There are 14 gardens, the names of which alone would be enough to draw in most young children: the Rapunzel Garden, the Enchanted Forest, Tom Thumb's Garden, the Perfumed Path, the Fairies' Border; the Love Potion Garden. And all these are set against the backdrop of a chateau which wouldn't look out of place in the opening of a Disney movie.
In addition, the garden also functions as an outdoor sculpture park with intriguing creations including giant watering cans, pierced trees and even five pairs of enormous legs running through woods.
But all this is not a theme park. It's a real garden with plenty of plants and planting to interest the keenest of gardeners, it's just that they haven't forgotten that children are allowed to be excited too.
Perhaps we need to adopt a similar attitude here?
Blimey - look at me, getting all serious! Don't worry, it won't happen again.
So, to lighten the mood, here is my latest Movember moustache (any donations gratefully received...) - Day 4: The Miniature Pine Cone Moustache. Very good for rocking the Brokeback Mountain look and mighty fine paired with matching earings.


I want to go to Le Rivau. If I could, I'd be on the next train.
My most significant problem re. children and gardens is that many plants I like have poisonous fruits or flowers and, since there are many children in our street and, since many of said children like interfering with the garden at the front of our house, I have to make sure I don't kill too many marauding infants.
Posted by: Esther Montgomery | November 06, 2011 at 10:35 AM
Sounds like just the garden for rediscovering my inner 7 year old. Serious tone being overlooked as fab reporting of excellent play space. How about a prince charming moustache with rapunzel plait?
Posted by: Carolyn @ Urban Veg patch | November 06, 2011 at 02:31 PM
You can spray those beauties gold for Christmas. Great post x
Posted by: BelgraviaWife - sort of | November 06, 2011 at 03:29 PM
Esther - My own garden is full of toxic plants. It wasn't done on puropse (I do love my children - really) but these happen to be some of my favourite plants. It does mean my kids are very up to speed on which plants to avoid - although if they started eating flowers I would worry anyway.
Carolyn - love the Rapunzel idea. Perhaps I should snip off my daughter's plait while she sleeps...
BelgraviaWife - Nice idea!
Posted by: Dawn | November 06, 2011 at 05:10 PM
I've never been to England but you've described these parks beautifully. My grand children love helping me in my backyard garden on the west coast of America. They love helping me plant then can hardly wait till harvest. Great article, thank you for the garden tour.
Posted by: Debra | March 14, 2012 at 08:54 PM